Cybersex

Cybersex From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia A West Midlands Police poster attempting to inform children about how to respond to online sexual abuse Cybersex, also called computer sex, Internet sex, netsex, mudsex, TinySex and, colloquially, cybering or conversex is a virtual sex encounter in which two or more people connected remotely via computer network send each other sexually explicit messages describing a sexual experience. In one form, this fantasy sex is accomplished by the participants describing their actions and responding to their chat partners in a mostly written form designed to stimulate their own sexual feelings and fantasies.[1] Cybersex sometimes includes real life masturbation.[2] The quality of a cybersex encounter typically depends upon the participants' abilities to evoke a vivid, visceral mental picture in the minds of their partners. Imagination and suspension of disbelief are also critically important. Cybersex can occur either within the context of existing or intimate relationships, e.g. among lovers who are geographically separated, or among individuals who have no prior knowledge of one another and meet in virtual spaces or cyberspaces and may even remain anonymous to one another. In some contexts cybersex is enhanced by the use of a webcam to transmit real-time video of the partners. Channels used to initiate cybersex are not necessarily exclusively devoted to that subject, and participants in any Internet chat may suddenly receive a message with any possible variation of the text "Wanna cyber?", "Wanna cam?" or a request for "C2C"/"C4C" ("cam to cam" and "cam for cam", respectively). Cybersex is commonly performed in Internet chat rooms (such as IRC, talkers or web chats) and on instant messaging systems. It can also be performed using webcams, voice chat systems like Skype, or online games and/or virtual worlds like Second Life. The exact definition of cybersex—specifically, whether real-life masturbation must be taking place for the online sex act to count as cybersex—is up for debate.[3] It is also fairly frequent in online role-playing games, such as MUDs and MMORPGs, though approval of this activity varies greatly from game to game. Some online social games like Red Light Center are dedicated to cybersex and other adult behaviors. These online games are often called AMMORPGs. In other games of the wider MMORPG genre, it ranges from widely accepted to the point of game masters/moderators taking part, such as in Final Fantasy Online[citation needed], to moderated based on player reports, as in World of Warcraft[citation needed], to grounds for a suspension from play or a permanent banishment, as in EVE Online and Anarchy Online[citation needed]. Cybersex may also be accomplished through the use of avatars in a multiuser software environment. It is often called mudsex or netsex in MUDs. In TinyMUD variants, particularly MUCKs, the term TinySex (TS) is very common.[4][5] Though text-based cybersex has been in practice for decades,[6] the increased popularity of webcams has raised the number of online partners using two-way video connections to "expose" themselves to each other online—giving the act of cybersex a more visual aspect. There are a number of popular, commercial webcam websites that allow people to openly masturbate on camera while others watch them.[7] Using similar sites, couples can also perform on camera for the enjoyment of others. Cybersex differs from phone sex in that it offers a greater degree of anonymity and allows participants to meet partners more easily. A good deal of cybersex takes place between partners who have just met online.[citation needed] In online worlds like Second Life and via webcam-focused chat services, however, Internet sex workers engage in cybersex in exchange for both virtual and real-life currency.[8] "I love you, too."~ *I lick slowly up the base of your neck. Nipping at your ear gently, my lips curl into a gentle smirk.* —An example of typical cybersex Contents 1 Uses of cybersex 2 Advantages 3 Criticism 4 See also 5 References 6 Further reading Uses of cybersex Cybersex can be utilised to write co-written original fiction and fanfiction by role-playing in third person, in forums or communities usually known by the name of 'A Shared Dream'. It can also be used to gain experience for solo writers who want to write more realistic sex scenes, by exchanging ideas. One approach to cybering is a simulation of "real" sex, when participants try to make the experience as close to real life as possible, with participants taking turns writing descriptive, sexually explicit passages. Alternatively, it can be considered a form of sexual roleplay that allows the participants to experience unusual sexual sensations and carry out sexual experiments they cannot try in reality. Amongst "serious" roleplayers, cybering may occur as part of a larger plot–the characters involved may be lovers or spouses. In situations like this, the people typing often consider themselves separate entities from the "people" engaging in the sexual acts, much as the author of a novel often does not completely identify with his or her characters. Due to this difference, such roleplayers typically prefer the term "erotic roleplay" rather than cybersex to describe it. In "real cybering" personas often remain in character throughout the entire life of the contact, to include evolving into phone sex, and meatspace encounters while in character, as a form of improvisation, or, nearly, a performance art. Often these personas develop complex past histories for their characters to make the fantasy/roleplay even more life like, thus the evolution of the term "real cybering". Advantages Cybersex provides various advantages: Since cybersex can satisfy some sexual desires without the risk of a sexually transmitted disease (STD) or pregnancy, it is a physically safe way for young people (such as with teenagers) to experiment with sexual thoughts and emotions. Additionally, people with long-term ailments (including HIV) can engage in cybersex as a way to safely achieve sexual gratification without putting their partners at risk. Cybersex allows real-life partners who are physically separated to continue to be sexually intimate. In geographically separated relationships, it can function to sustain the sexual dimension of a relationship in which the partners see each other only infrequently face to face. Also, it can allow partners to work out problems that they have in their sex life that they feel uncomfortable bringing up otherwise.[9] Cybersex allows for sexual exploration. For example, it can enable participants to act out fantasies which they would not act out (or perhaps would not even be realistically possible) in real life through roleplaying due to physical or social limitations[10] and potential for misunderstanding, such as extreme BDSM, incest, zoophilia, pedophilia, or even rape. It takes less effort and fewer resources on the Internet than in real life to connect to a person like oneself or with whom a more meaningful relationship is possible.[9] Furthermore, cybersex allows for instant sexual encounters, along with fast response and gratification. Cybersex allows each user to take control. For example, each party has complete control over the duration of a webcam session. Criticism Cybersex is often criticized because the partners frequently have little verifiable knowledge about each other.[11] However, since for many the primary point of cybersex is the plausible simulation of sexual activity, this knowledge is not always desired or necessary, and may actually be undesirable.[citation needed] Privacy concerns are a difficulty with cybersex, since participants may log or record the interaction without the other's knowledge, and possibly disclose it to others or the public.[12] There is disagreement over whether cybersex is a form of infidelity. While it does not involve physical contact, critics claim that the powerful emotions involved can cause marital stress, especially when cybersex culminates in an Internet romance. In several known cases, Internet adultery became the grounds for which a couple divorced.[13][14] Therapists report a growing number of patients addicted to this activity,[15] a form of both Internet addiction and sexual addiction, with the standard problems associated with addictive behavior.[9] See also Computer-mediated communication Internet pornography Sexting Sexual addiction Teledildonics References Hahn, Harley (1996). The Internet Complete Reference (2nd ed.). Osborne McGraw-Hill. p. 570. ISBN 0-07-882138-X. "The goal of mud sex is the same as the goal of regular sex (without the babies): to bond temporarily in a way that is physically and emotionally satisfying. To do so, two people will exchange messages so as to lead one another into a high level of sexual arousal, culminating in a well-defined resolution." Hahn, Harley (1996). The Internet Complete Reference (2nd ed.). Osborne McGraw-Hill. p. 570. ISBN 0-07-882138-X. "To be blunt, most mud sex is also accompanied by the people sexually gratifying themselves in real life at the same time." Ruberg, Bonnie (2007-05-18). "What Counts as Cybersex?". The Village Voice. Retrieved 2010-04-20. Hahn, Harley (1996). The Internet Complete Reference (2nd ed.). Osborne McGraw-Hill. p. 570. ISBN 0-07-882138-X. "MUD SEX refers to the acting out of erotic feelings by two people while typing a series of sexually explicit messages. (Mud sex is also referred to as NET SEX or—on a TinyMud—TINYSEX.)" Busey, Andrew (1995). Secrets of the MUD Wizards. SAMS Publishing. p. 95. ISBN 0-672-30723-5. "MUD sex is another MUD item that may seem a bit shocking to some. MUD sex (sometimes called TinySex—usually on TinyMUDs, MUCKs, and MUSHes) is a lot like phone sex. As you know, most MUDs have a high degree of flexibility when it comes to expressing oneself and communicating—and if you're a little creative, you can use these commands (such as say and emote discussed in Chapter 5) to have MUD sex (or TinySex, depending on the type of MUD it is)." Dibbell, Julian (1998). My Tiny Life. Henry Holt. ISBN 0-8050-3626-1. Retrieved 2010-04-20. Ruberg, Bonnie (2007-07-27). "Do You Like to Watch?". The Village Voice. Retrieved 2010-04-20. Ruberg, Bonnie (2007-08-31). "Peeking Up the Skirt of Online Sex Work". The Village Voice. Retrieved 2010-04-20. Grov, Christian, Brian Joseph Gillespie, Tracy Royce, and Janet Lever. 2011. “Perceived Consequences of Casual Online Sexual Activities on Heterosexual Relationships: A U.S. Online Survey.” Archives of Sexual Behavior, 40(2): 429-39. Ito, Mizuko (1997). "Virtually Embodied: The Reality of Fantasy in a Multi-User Dungeon". In Porter, David. Internet Culture (pbk. ed.). Routledge. pp. 95–96. ISBN 0-415-91684-4. "She describes virtual sex as akin to an interactive romance novel. The metaphor is crucial. The fantasy "text" is paramount, the real bodies nonexistent. She explains: "It is how you describe yourself and how you act (on the Internet) that makes up the 'real you'.... real life persons' looks mean so little to me..."" Hahn, Harley (1996). The Internet Complete Reference (2nd ed.). Osborne McGraw-Hill. p. 571. ISBN 0-07-882138-X. "Finally, don't forget that the characters on a mud will not correspond exactly to the people in real life. In particular, what looks like a woman may really be a man. HINT: If you are a guy, and you go up to a female character on a mud and say, "Hi, wanna have sex?", and she says yes right away, chances are she is another guy playing a female role." Carton, Sean (1995). Internet Virtual Worlds Quick Tour. Ventana Press. p. 180. ISBN 1-56604-222-4. "TinySex Simulated sexual activity done on a virtual world. Like the text equivalent of phone sex. It should be entered into with caution because you never know who's who online, and some people love enticing a person into an extended TinySex session and then posting a log of the activity to various newsgroups." Siemaszko, Corky (2006-02-02). "Cybersplit Online Affair Spurs Off-Line Divorce". New York Daily News. Retrieved 2010-04-20. Cable, Amanda (2008-11-14). "Divorced from reality: All three accounts of the Second Life love triangle that saw a woman separate from her husband for having a cyber-affair". Mail Online. Retrieved 2010-04-20. Godson, Suzi (2002). The Sex Book. Cassell Illustrated. p. 258. ISBN 0-304-35991-2.

Sexual Problems and Depression

How does depression affect sexuality?

The brain is the body's most sensitive "sex organ." Sexual desire starts in the brain and works its way down. Chemicals in the brain called neurotransmitters help brain cells communicate with each other in order to stimulate blood flow to the sex organs. In a person with depression, these chemicals are out of balance. As a result, sexual desire is low or nonexistent. In addition, low levels of some of these chemicals can dull pleasurable feelings. The strain that depression places on relationships can further interfere with sexual function and pleasure.
Some people with depression experience sexual problems. The severity of the problem depends on the severity of the depression and the presence of anxiety. For those with more severe depression, the more likely it is for sexual problems to be present.

How do antidepressant medicines cause sexual problems?

Antidepressant medicines are highly effective in helping to ease depression. However, many of these drugs--such as SSRIs-- have undesirable side effects, including sexual problems that can result. Some antidepressants may make it difficult for a man to have an erection. For both men and women, sexual problems can mean being unable to initiate, participate fully in, or enjoy sex. Such complications can lead to a loss of self-confidence that can, in turn, undermine depression recovery. In addition, side effects tend to increase with higher doses of antidepressants.

What can be done to treat sexual problems?

There are ways to help manage the sexual side effects associated with many antidepressant medicines without compromising treatment. These include switching to drugs that have less effect on sexual function. Some antidepressant medicines—such as Wellbutrin®, Remeron®, and Serzone®—cause fewer or no sexual side effects.
To better cope with the debilitating effects of depression--as well as the sexual side effects of treatment-- you should be open and honest with your doctor and your sexual partner. Most people choose to continue treatment once they realize that the sex

What are sexual problems in men?

What are sexual problems in men?

Sexual health is an important part of a man's life, no matter his age, civil status, or sexual orientation. It is also an important part of a couple's foundation and contributes to the quality of life. Sexual problems in men are very common and impact sexual health. Many problems can be treated and therefore it is important for a man to discuss these issues with a physicians.
The definition of sexual dysfunction is the inability to have a satisfactory sexual relationship. This definition depends on each person's own interpretation on what he judges satisfactory. In general, sexual dysfunction can affect the quality of life and, even more importantly, can be the first symptom of another medical or psychological problem. Any sexual complaint should be taken seriously and evaluated.

What is the physiology of sexual function?

Sexual activity involves coordination between various systems of the body. Hormones and neurological pathways must be in sync for sexual desire to be present. Blood vessels, nerves, and penile integrity must all be present for an adequate erection and its maintenance during the sexual relation. Muscles and nerves coordinate ejaculation achieved when the physiological passageway for sperm (from the testicles to the urethra) is present. Orgasm is a complex phenomenon that isn't completely understood but it involves the coordination of muscles and nerves. When sexual dysfunction is present, the physician must evaluate all the possible problems in this chain of events.

How are sexual problems in men diagnosed?

Evaluation of sexual dysfunction starts with a detailed medical, sexual, and psychological history, followed by a thorough physical examination. The second step must not be overlooked because sexual dysfunction can have many causes. Sometimes, the patient's partner can also contribute to the evaluation and could provide useful information as well.
A detailed medical, psychological, and sexual history is acquired during the interview with the physician. Some of the questions that are asked can be intimate and might cause you to feel shy to answer thoroughly. It is imperative to give the proper information, even though it is understandable that it can take time to be comfortable talking about this. Having a good relationship with your physician is always helpful.
Some of the questions the doctor could ask might concern the frequency of sexual relations, your sexual orientation, if the frequency or quality of sexual relations are satisfying, and your number of sexual partners, among others. They will also inquire about nonsexual-related complaints.
A complete physical examination is performed including assessing the pulses in the legs and a thorough examination of the external genitalia (penis, scrotum, and perineum) and their reflexes..
One of the possible tests is a nocturnal tumescence test to evaluate nocturnal erections. Your physician might also ask for tests for penile blood vessel function or some tests of the nervous system to help differentiate between possible causes of sexual dysfunction.

What is the treatment for sexual problems in men?

The treatment plan depends greatly on the precise cause of the problem. If the cause is psychological, help from a psychiatrist or psychologist can help. The indicated therapy in this case will be cognitive behavioral therapy. Sometimes the treatment will include couples therapy. If the cause of the diminished libido is pharmacological, you can consult your physician and ask if he or she can suggest a medicine without sexual side effects. Sometimes, hormonal replacement will be suggested. Talk to your doctor about any changes in libido you have experienced.

What are the different types of sexual dysfunction in men?

Types of sexual dysfunction include disorders involving sexual desire or libido, erection, ejaculation, and orgasm. They will be described separately, but understand that some medical conditions can affect two or more disorders at the same time.

What is low libido?

The definition of low libido is when sexual desire is diminished or absent. The definition also varies according to the patient's level of satisfaction of his own sexual desire. Some men can be very fulfilled with what some men consider scarce sexual activity.
Sexual desire problems affect a small percentage of men in the general population. Libido is mainly a hormonal and brain phenomenon. Sexual desire requires normal levels of testosterone (male hormone) in the blood and a certain attraction for the partner in question.

What are the risk factors for low libido?

The risk factors for low libido in men include:

• Age because testosterone concentration will decrease over the years
• Alcohol consumption
• Malnourishment
• Smoking
• Drug consumption
• Conditions requiring medication that lowers testosterone, depression, benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH), pain, and prostate cancer

What causes low libido?

Many causes have been identified as contributing to the diminishment of sexual desire. They include:

• Medications (SSRIs, anti-androgens, 5-alpha-reductase inhibitors, opioid analgesics)
• Alcoholism
• Depression
• Fatigue
• Hypoactive sexual disorder
• Recreational drugs
• Relationship problems
• Other sexual dysfunction (fear of humiliation)
• Sexual aversion disorder
• Systemic illness
• Testosterone deficiency
• Stress
• Lack of time
• History of sexual abuse
• Hormonal problems such as hyperthyroidism

What are the symptoms of low libido?

The person that lacks sexual desire won't want to initiate the sexual relation. If the act is initiated, low libido can also present itself as the inability to attain an erection. If the patient experiences a first episode of erectile dysfunction without any previous sexual symptoms and adequate nocturnal erection, the cause is probably psychogenic and the problem is not the erection. It is also important to specify if the low libido is new in onset or if one has always felt this way about sexual relations.

What is erectile dysfunction?

Erectile dysfunction (ED) is the inability to acquire or maintain a satisfactory erection. The prevalence of erectile dysfunction varies according to the patient's age. About 18% of men from 50 to 59 years of age will suffer from erectile dysfunction and 37% of those aged 70 to 75 years will, too.
There are three types of erections -- those caused by tactile stimulation, those caused by mental stimulation, and those that men experience while sleeping. This classification can be important when the cause of erectile dysfunction is yet to be determined.
In order to have an erection, men need stimuli; they need blood arriving from the arteries and a veins capable of locking the blood in place. Each of the numerous steps in this system can fail making erectile dysfunction a complex problem for investigation

যেসব কারণে নারীরা যৌনজীবনে অধিক অসুখী ও অতৃপ্ত ?

যেসব কারণে নারীরা যৌনজীবনে অধিক অসুখী ও অতৃপ্ত ?

 

লাইফ স্টাইল ডেস্ক :: পুরুষের তুলনায় যৌন জীবনে নারীদের অসুখী হবার হার অনেক বেশি। এমনকি নিজের ভালোবাসার পুরুষটির সাথেও যৌন জীবন নিয়ে খুশি নন প্রচুর নারী। মুখে প্রকাশ না করলেও মনের মাঝে একটা চাপা ক্ষোভ নিয়ে জীবন যাপন করেন টানা, মুখ ফুটে অনেকেই বলতে পারেন না যৌন জীবনে নিজের অতৃপ্তির কথা। কিন্তু এটা কেন? কেন প্রচুর নারী রয়ে যান যৌন জীবনে অসুখী ও অতৃপ্ত?
১) ভুল ধারণা ও অজ্ঞতা..
নারীদের যৌন জীবনে অসুখী রয়ে যাওয়ার মূল কারণ হচ্ছে পর্যাপ্ত যৌন শিক্ষার অভাব। যৌনতা যে কেবল সন্তান উৎপাদনের মাধ্যম নয়, নারী ও পুরুষ উভয়ের জন্যই একটি আনন্দের ব্যাপার- এই ব্যাপারটি সম্পর্কে আজও অজ্ঞ প্রচুর নারী। কী করতে হবে বা কীভাবে করলে আরও আনন্দময় হয়ে উঠবে যৌন মিলন, সেটা জানা নেই বলে তাঁরা রয়ে যান অসুখী ও অতৃপ্ত।
২) নিজেকে বুঝতে না পারা
আসলে কী চাইছেন, তার শরীর কোন জিনিসে কীভাবে সাড়া দিচ্ছে, কোন অঙ্গগুলো যৌনতার ক্ষেত্রে স্পর্শকাতর বা নিজের শরীরের চাহিদাগুলো কী কী ইত্যাদি বিষয়ে অজ্ঞতা বা বুঝতে না পারাও যৌন জীবনে অসুখী হবার একটি বড় কারণ। যেমন ধরুন, প্রচুর নারীই জানেন না যে ক্লাইটোরিস কী বা যৌন জীবনে এর প্রভাব কী ।
৩) কী চান সেটা বলতে না পারা
নিজেকে বুঝতে পারেন, নিজের চাহিদাও জানেন, কিন্তু মুখ ফুটে বলতে পারছেন না নিজের ভালো লাগা না লাগার কথা। নারীদের যৌন জীবনে অতৃপ্ত থাকার অন্তরালে এটা একটি বিশাল কারণ। এমনকি তিনি যে যৌন জীবনে সুখী নন, এটাও পুরুষ সঙ্গীকে মুখ ফুটে বলতে পারেন না অনেক নারী।
৪) লজ্জা ও সংকোচ
অনেক নারীই মনে করেন যে মেয়েদের যৌনতার কথা বলতে নেই, কিংবা মেয়েদের যৌনতার বিষয়টি নিয়ে কথা বল বা যৌন চাহিদা প্রদর্শন করার বিষয়টি খুবই লজ্জার। তাই মনের ইচ্ছা মনেই চেপে রাখেন তাঁরা।
৫) পুরুষ সঙ্গীর স্বার্থপরতা
বেশিরভাগ পুরুষই নিজের সঙ্গীনির যৌন চাহিদা পূরণের ব্যাপারে মনযোগী নন। বরং নিজের চাহিদা মিটে গেলেই তাঁরা স্বার্থপরের মত আচরণ করতে শুরু করেন। এটাও নারীদের অতৃপ্ত থাকার একটি বড় কারণ।
৬) অরগাজম সম্পর্কে ভুল ধারণা
অরগাজম বা চূড়ান্ত সুখ যে কেবল পুরুষের জন্য নয়। নারীরাও যে অরগাজম লাভ করতে পারেন এবং সেটা পুরুষদের মতই প্রত্যেক মিলনে, এই ব্যাপারটি জানেন না প্রচুর নারী। কীভাবে অরগাজম লাভ সম্ভব, কোন পজিশনে মিলিত হলে অরগাজম সহজে আসে ইত্যাদি বিষয়ে অজ্ঞতার কারণে নারীরা রয়ে যান অসুখী।
৭) শারীরিক-মানসিক সমস্যা নিয়ে সংকোচ
যৌনতায় আগ্রহ নেই বা যৌনতা ঘিরে কোন শারীরিক সমস্যা বোধ করছেন? এমন অবস্থায় ডাক্তারের কাছে যান না অধিকাংশ নারী। ফলে সামান্য একটু চিকিৎসার অভাবেই তাঁদের যৌন জীবন রয়ে যায় বিভীষিকাময়।
৮) যৌনতা ঘিরে ভয়
অনেক নারীর মাঝেই যৌনতা বিষয়ে নানান রকমের ভীতি কাজ করে। ফলে এই বিষয়টি সম্পর্কে তাঁরা কখনো সহজ মনোভাব পোষণ করতে পারেন না, চিরকাল বিষয়টি নিয়ে আড়ষ্টতা রয়ে যায়।

হস্তমৈথুনে ক্যান্সারের সম্ভাবনা হ্রাস?

লাইফ স্টাইল ডেস্ক ::
স্বাস্থ্যের জন্য হস্তমৈথুন খারাপ এমনটাই জেনে থাকবেন অনেকে। কিন্তু এবার বুঝি সেই ধারনা পাল্টাতে হবে। কারন হস্তমৈথুন স্বাস্থের পক্ষে ভাল, অন্তত এমনটাই দাবি করছেন বিজ্ঞানীরা। অস্ট্রেলীয় বিজ্ঞানী অ্যান্টনি সান্টেল্লা ও স্রিং সিনোয়া কুপারের মতে হস্তমৈথুন বা স্বমেহন মানুষকে সুস্থ রাখরে সাহায্য করে। সিসটিসিস, ডায়াবেটিস ও প্রোস্টেট ক্যান্সের মত রোগ গুলিকে দূরে সরিয়ে রাখে।
মার্কিন যুক্তরাষ্ট্রে সম্প্রতি করা এক সমীক্ষা অনুযায়ী ৯৪% পুরুষ ও ৮৫% মহিলা হস্তমৈথুন করার কথা স্বীকার করেছেন। এই অভ্যাস অতন্ত স্বাভাবিক। এমনকি গর্ভাবস্থায় থাকার সময় থেকেই শিশুরাও হস্তমৈথুন করে বলে দাবি বিজ্ঞানীদের। দ্য কনভার্সেশন নামের একটি ওয়েবসাইটে সান্টেল্লা ও কুপার লিখেছেন ”মহিলাদের ক্ষেত্রে সারভাইকাল মূত্র নালীর সংক্রমণ ঠেকাতে কার্যকরী ভূমিকা নেয় হস্তমৈথুন। সারভিক্স টেনটিংয়ের ফলে ব্যাকটেরিয়া ভর্তি সারভাইকাল তরল বাইরে বেড়িয়ে আসে।”
এর ফলে বহু সময় অর্গাজম হয় যাতে বিভিন্ন হরমোনের ক্ষরণের ফলে অনিদ্রা ও মানসিকচাপ দূর হয়। কমে ডায়াবেটিসের সম্ভাবনা পুরুষদের ক্ষেত্রে প্রোস্টেট ক্যানসারে সম্ভাবনা কমায় হস্তমৈথুন। বিজ্ঞানীরা জানিয়েছেন হস্তমৈথুনের সময় এমন কিছু হরমোন প্রোস্টেট গ্ল্যান্ড থেকে নিষ্কৃত হয় যা ক্যান্সারের কারণ হতে পারে। স্বমেহননের ফলে মানসিক শান্তি বাড়ে। ফলে এন্ড্রোফিন্স ও কর্টিসলের লেভেল বৃদ্ধি পায়।

গার্লফ্রেন্ড শারীরিকভাবে উত্তেজিত হয়েছে কিনা তা বুঝব কী করে?

গার্লফ্রেন্ড শারীরিকভাবে উত্তেজিত হয়েছে কিনা তা বুঝব কী করে?

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লাইফ স্টাইল ডেস্ক :: গার্লফ্রেন্ড আর বয়ফ্রেন্ডের সম্পর্কে উত্তেজনার বিষয়টি সার্বিকভাবে জড়িত। দুটি মনের যখন মিল হয়ে থাকে তখন স্বাভাবিকভাবেই তারা চাইবে শারীরিকভাবে মিলিত হতে। পাশাপাশি অবস্থানে তাদের মাঝে এক ধরনের উত্তেজনা কাজ করে, শারীরিকভাবে উত্তেজিত হয়ে থাকে। কিন্তু অনেকের চোখেই এই উত্তেজনাটি ধরা পড়ে না। শারীরিক মিলনে অনভিজ্ঞ বয়ফ্রেন্ড তাই বুঝতেই পারেন না তার গার্লফ্রেন্ডটি উত্তেজিত হয়েছে কি না। আসুন জেনে নিই কিছু বৈশিষ্ট্য সম্পর্কে যেগুলো দেখে বুঝে নিতে পারবেন যে আপনার গার্লফ্রেন্ডটি শারীরিকভাবে উত্তেজিত হয়েছেন।
১. একজন নারী উত্তেজিত হয়ে পড়লে বা কামবিহ্বল হলে তার দুটি চোখ অর্দ্ধনিমীলিত ও রক্তবর্ণ ধারণ করে।
২. জোরে জোরে নিশ্বাস ফেলতে থাকেন।
৩. চেহারার মধ্যে উত্তেজনার ভাব স্পষ্ট ফুটে ওঠে।
৪. হাত পা শিথিল হয়ে যায়।
৫. চোঁখ বন্ধ করে থাকতে চান।
৬. শারীরিক উত্তেজনায় ঠোঁট দুটি হা করে চুম্বন করতে অগ্রসর হন।
৭. শারীরিকভাবে গরম অনুভূতি পেয়ে থাকেন এবং এক ধরনের ঝিমঝিম ভাব কাজ করে।
৮. নারীটির লজ্জা কমে যায়, পুরুষ তার অঙ্গ স্পর্শ করলে সে তাতে বাধা দেয় না।
৯. পুরুষ তার গোপন স্থানে হাত দিলে বা চাপ দিলে তিনি তা উপভোগ করেন।
১০. সব রকম ভয়, সঙ্কোচ কাটিয়ে সারাটা দেহই সে পুরুষকে অর্পণ করে।

Name Porokia Origins

The life path number of Porokia Prem is 11. The number 11 is a master number. Numerology number eleven is related to light and is regarded as the teacher. Knowledge is enlightening and helps to live consciously. You are an idealist a dreamer and sometimes a mystic. Since you have a lot of vision, you should be an inspiration for others. You have the gift to open doors and help others to achieve more. You should follow your hunches, because you're psychic. You are a good speaker and people like to listen your stories. You should learn to be more practical and start thinking about creating real plans and writing them down. Otherwise you tend to live too much in the clouds and nothing gets accomplished. Learn to respect appointments and start being on time. They are wise and intuitive. Often clairvoyant with extremely sensitive feelers for vibrations and extrasensory perception. Can be a spiritual teacher for others. Also sudden changes and unforeseen events do not make them lose composure, because elevens know that change is the only certainty in life. For a long time you are on the spiritual path. You've been a very long time on the spiritual path, maybe even more than one incarnation. You have learned through spiritual evolution a lot about the mysteries of life and death. You possess courage, talent and leadership. You are intelligent, wise, intuitive and often prescient, with extremely sensitive extrasensory perception skills and a strong inclination to the spiritual. At the same time you have the power to take on many changes and unforeseen events. The key words here are altruism and society. You came to the unique incarnation of the examiner. You must learn to love thy neighbor as thyself and take it to your deeds. Your strong intuition gives you valuable wisdom and inspiration! Eleven is one of the most difficult vibrations, since it requires a constant high level. You must learn to be patient and at the same time able to make quick decisions. You need to consider the balance between exploration of material, physical life and invigorating spiritual life, which is based on your own understanding. You can be successful in the field of science because you are attracted to all the new inventions and discoveries. You might want to choose an astronomer, astrologer, or a bible researcher and interpreter of the profession. You are original and creative. You can be a teacher, writer, philosopher, orator. He gives courage, power and talent with strong leadership skills.